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Everyone is so rude here now
fuck I hate it. :I

Sometimes I want to leave this website and come back in a year to see if things change or not, to see if people decide to mature a little. I feel like almost everyone here is trying to show off how "badass" they can be infront of their friends. To see if they can get away with being obnoxious, like a spoiled little prick, or an immature kid even.
fuck a lot of you are dissapointing.
and wow those cyber bullies who literally tare people apart but then say they're "shy and really quiet" well man, YOU CAN'T JUST..BE MEAN TO PEOPLE AND BE SHY THAT DOESNT EVEN MAKE SENSE OK.

I had bullies in middle school, who would punch me and make fun of me, and I've only told 2 people that before. But in no way were they "shy or quiet" people. They were loud, mean, sarcastic, violent people, who others feared.
now why would you want people to fear you? A lot of you guys act like you're too good for this site, which if you truly believe you are, get off. Do you feel proud that you're bullying an 11 or 12 year olds art? WOW DOESNT THAT JUST MAKE YOU SO ~KEWL~
Do you think the label of "cyber-bully" makes you awesome
lol omg THINK ABOUT IT
We're literally just a bunch of internet-addicted nerds gathered together, showing eachother our art to find ways to improve it.
why can't we just be nice to eachother man

If this journal offends someone...if really shouldn't, lol.
let's just be nice guyssss
people like nice peopleee

you know who I appreciate?
friendly people. They are the ones I remember, the nice ones who will listen to anyone's problems, and try to help if they can. They are just nice people who comment on stuff often and just like making friends and so on.

Why do some people just think they're way too superior than others on here? We're all nerds here man, most of us dont even have social lives.
I'm not saying ALL of us dont, but
yaknow

lets just be nice guysss
it'd be nice to come here feeling positive about the people around us, yes? Instead of being hesistant whether to comment on their art or not, because your afraid they'll make fun of you. Or not feeling worthy enough of even posting stuff here.

I hope this doesnt start drama, because this would be really stupid to fight about. :I
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xT-a-y-l-o-r Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
Why do some people just think they're way too superior than others on here? We're all nerds here man, most of us dont even have social lives.


thank
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Sliced-Penguin Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
it's only true. xD
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PinkPoodle543 Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
Very nicely said :clap:
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Sliced-Penguin Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
thank you <3
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PinkPoodle543 Featured By Owner Dec 29, 2012
Welcome c:
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FireToIce Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
It'll never change as soon as the first lot of immature cyber-bullies mature the next set of ignorant mean spirited people will fill the space.
Causing even more pointless dA drama and hate for the 'popularity' it brings.
Its a shame that on the internet where you can choose who you want to be so many people choose to be stupid pricks.
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selfish-machines Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012   Digital Artist
aha i agree with you so much
there's this one person on here that i really hate
like
they think they have the privilege to be an asshole to everyone who tries to talk to them
i'm not even going to bother to try to talk to them about it because they won't listen no matter what
i just really hate what they're doing, it really bothers me
but yea a majority of the deviantart community is full of ignorant selfish morons
it makes me really hate this website
why do people think it's cool to bully others??
like wow
it's sick how some people love to bully people up to the point of where the victim commits suicide
bullying is not fucking cool it makes you look stupid and selfish
why cant the fucking people doing it get that through their heads?
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Sliced-Penguin Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
I feel sick about every time I go to check my messages, hoping that no one sent me any sort of hate messages about my art. It can be like so scary for people after it's happened once, even for me. I feel scared to even post commissions sometimes because there was this one time when someone raged so hard at me because I got a small detail wrong.
its like woah guyssss
lets all just calm downnnn
They're people on here I know like that, but I wont say names either. It's like so stupid man, because it really does make them look selfish and as if they're better than everyone on here, but they're not. A lot of us are similiar, if people thought about it. Most of us age range between 11-16, like the same music and shows and draw animals, pokemon and/or humans. There's really no reason to start fights here lol
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Reidakk Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
I have a similar issue with a few friends of mine always getting bullied or criticized one way or another. I just try to help them any way I can and like I say "Ignore/blocking/ is magical so ignore is your friend." because seriously people will always find a way to criticize you that always seems to be inevitable these days.
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Sliced-Penguin Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
It sure seems like it, there really shouldn't even be fights on the internet, ya know? I mean, it's the internet lol. We're all just on here in our free time, and we should be able to enjoy what we do outside of school, etc. Art is a huge passion to many of us, and I don't think anyone would want to feel negetivity for the people who are going to be seeing it. This is just a place where we can get comments or critique to help us improve on art, it's really unesseccary for people to be rude here, or act like they're too good for everyone.
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Reidakk Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
It's not just here it's everywhere they go either here, xat or just IRL people have nothing better to do these days.
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Sliced-Penguin Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
I know :/
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iTurret Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
Dude Your Right, I Don't Know What's Going On With People, I Just Came To This Website To Share My Arts With Others, Improve My Art, Meet New People And All That's Stuff But Dang I Guess Most Of The People In This World Are Cruel And Mean, Kids These Days Are Not The Kids From Before, They're So Mean, They Already Know What's The Internet And Know Facebook, Youtube, Twitter And They Even Have Accounts, A 7 Year Old With An Account? Yes Kids This Days Are Just Lame And Cruel Without Them Knowing, That's Why I Hate Kids Now, The Fact That The Mayan Day Supposted To Be A Doomsday, It Was The Beggining Of A New Cycle And I Think This Cycle Of Life Will Get Worst And Worst, Even Adults Don't Respect Anyone, Not Even An Elder Or An Kid, All The Nice People, Shy, Helpful, And Funny Its At Extinction, I Know That If This World Keeps Going On Like This It Will Be Infested With Rude, Dangerous, Cruel, Serious, Mean And More Worst People That Would Crazy.

Its Not Only In deviantART Kim, Its Already Everywhere, Kids Only Do This For Fun Or To Be "Badass", Seeing Those Kids Doing Those Things Makes Me Wanna Just Punch Them But I Can't Cause There Kids, Like Someone Needs To Teach Them What's Wrong And What's Right, This Is Just Getting Out Of Hand, Since Their Way Addicted To The Internet They Just Stay All Day On The Internet And Copy Everything That A Teenager Does And I Don't Know Why Kids Don't Understand Sarcasm, Since They Understand Everything As They Say, You Just Say Something Sarcastic To Them And They Just Think That You Said Something Else To Them.

Sorry If I Ranted A Lot Kim But Damm, This Is Just Unbelievable...
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Sliced-Penguin Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
You're completely right man..
I once saw this video of homeless, poor Africans, all they had were eachother but they were so happy. One day they found a soda bottle and the tribe would use it for crushing food or smoothing out wood they carved. But soon enough, they would be jealous of whoever had it, and get angry at eachother. Something that they never needed before, became a neccessity.
And many of the newer generations of kids are being spoiled with technology, 1st graders think that computers with mouses are "old-fashioned". When I was 8, I didn't have iPads or a laptop or anything, I would enjoy playing outside or swimming or something. I've noticed that using the internet too much can make someone anti-social or rude (in real life and online.)
And you're right, soon enough the world will be just full of mean kids, and that's why I try to be as nice as possible to people. I hate kids too, because I know by the time I'm an adult kids will be even MORE spoiled, and expect more out of everyone, and technology. and that's a good portion of the reason why I'll never have kids.
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iTurret Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
yeah, when i was like at the age of 6 i first meet the internet but i used it and it was boring to me, i started using the internet like at the age of 12, when i was a kid i always played with my friends so many thing like card games, hide-n-seek, roleplay (not the kinda roleplay you teens, adults and elders think), wrestling and more, i missed my childhood a lot i would say that my childhood was the best thing ever, i only use the internet to improve, share, communicate, upload, help, to get entertain and more things, i don't use the internet to cyber-bully, to waist my time or none of any ridiculous things. i always do something in the internet if no one belives me (especially my parents), i make art, i make music, i make videos, i make games, i manage a website, i help people, i go to forums and ask for help or help someone, i read feedback from people and reply them and more. you see people these days don't use the internet right, they think the internet is like a high school or an chatterbox, the internet was made to unleash what you can create & manage and make things more easier, it's not for stuff like facebook, i think facebook is just to tell someone something like stuff that you forgot to tell instead of using your e-mail, im glad that facebook will shut-down in january 15, if not well it ok since i don't use it.

People need to learn what's the internet for..
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Sliced-Penguin Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
That's so true, it's not like a highschool at all. o_o
and many people treat it as if it is, to see who's more popular on here or not,
they try to find out "who's better" and the gossip going around. it's stupid because later on in life it won't matter at all, and deviantart will just be a memory.
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iTurret Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
yupp, lets wrap up these long ass comments!
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Sliced-Penguin Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
agreeeed brotha
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unicornomics Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012   General Artist
I've had a few bad encounters on the forums because I used a plz icon and people took it as bragging and because I dared suggest that nipples needed filters.I also get sick of people whining about their premiums running out,their lack of points,their love life,their internet access,etc. when I have chronic depression and lost my mother a year ago and it STILL hurts.

However,I believe in being cordial online because you never know what someone else is going through.I also hate bullying and I know some nice people on this site,would you like me to introduce you to them?
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Sliced-Penguin Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
Exactly, many people don't post what's going on in their lives and if it's terrible than cyber-bullying is just going to make it worse, they won't feel welcome in real life or online. I would never want to make someone feel bad about themselves, or their art.
Sure! I would love to meet some nice people around here for once. xD
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unicornomics Featured By Owner Dec 29, 2012   General Artist
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giinga Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012   Digital Artist
omg, this journal explains everything ;u;
i feel really bad for the people who are being cyber bullied, but i agree with you, Why would you want people to fear you?
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Sliced-Penguin Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
Exactly, thank you. <3
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BreakNeckViolet Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012   Traditional Artist
:heart: I totally agree with everything you said. I miss the friendly people; that's why I try and help out so many of my friends/other users here.
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Sliced-Penguin Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
Me too :/
I miss when this was just a friendly enviroment that I looked forward into logging in everyday,
so I try to be friendly to as many people I can.
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BreakNeckViolet Featured By Owner Dec 29, 2012   Traditional Artist
I used to love logging in here, too. I don't know how the site changed...
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Greed-Alchemist Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
Thank you. I'm tired of this shit too.
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lolpeaceoutlol Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
thank you! Someone who's being honest. I mean i can relate to most of this stuff! it's happened to me. I make people gift art that i spend hours on ( and honestly it may not be the best and i know that) but people are so ungrateful. I've had people just straight up comment "this sucks" i mean come on dude whats your problem!

And your right many of us dont have social lives. Many who dont just sit on thier ass here and ethier steal art or make fun of others because thier bullies and want what we have... talent.

I remember when i was bullied in real life. The guy would give me physical harm, and emotional. He was much like the bullies here on Da. And you know someone can only take so much of that. :I

*phew* ok im done now, but do you mind if i paste this on my journal if credit is given to you? Its ok if you want to keep. it though^^
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Sliced-Penguin Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
I'm so sorry to hear you were bullied, you seem so nice. :c
But yes I would LOVE for people to spread this around, so go ahead, thank you. ^^
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lolpeaceoutlol Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
AWww thank you <33333
Alright thanks for letting me use permission ^^
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AngeloTheNinja Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Student General Artist
Thank you <3
People, seriously.
There's no need to criticize and gang up on people on this website.
Too many people, not just here, live for insults and bringing others down.
Do they realize how many people they hurt?
How many even consider people's feelings, even self-worth?
This is a website for sharing art and building new bonds.
Not drama and cruelty.
Give the REAL meaning of this website a chance. c:
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Sliced-Penguin Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
Thank you, I appreciate that people understand what i'm talking about. xD
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AngeloTheNinja Featured By Owner Dec 29, 2012  Student General Artist
No problem!~
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PsychoServal Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I kinda gave up on seeing this site improve. I just kinda ignore all the stupidity going around and just post and look at art. People these days just like drama too much for their own good.
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pepsimutt Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Totally agreed.
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tehchecker Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Much truth in that one! Owell, just ignore the ppl. acting like whoever, it's not worth it get upset cause of em
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choco-bit Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Amen.
Finally a journal that describes all I wanted to say about those rude people.
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Sliced-Penguin Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
I'm glad you agree man~
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DogsTeeth Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Oh my god thank you.

So many people make such unessicary comments on people's stuff.

Gift art for someone they admire; Someone's comment was
"Not enough detail, Sucks"

Someone popular get's an idea of someone popular, duplicates it, giving full credit. Their "friends" go to the original saying their idols is better.

Come on. Seriously. I'm so glad there are more people who realize that things are kind of going down hill here. v_v

And I'm so sorry you where bullied. That is just so unacceptable under any circumstance. No one should be bullied for any reason. Uhg. Makes me sick to think about.
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Sliced-Penguin Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
I'm so glad that people are agreeing with me on this. xD
aah when someone makes giftart for someone it's for someone they look up to, or admire, and they probably tried to do the best they can to make it look good. It sucks that some people are so negative as to put them down. Instead of saying "not enough details, sucks" they could have nicely just said some way they could improve, and be encouraging and helpful.
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DogsTeeth Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yeah :/ This person wasn't very old either; very sweet; just wanted to show their admiration. It made me so angry that someone just shot them down for No reason what so ever.
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cyrstalmoonwolfkitty Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i know what you mean. -.- i left for about 5 months, come back and everyones so... bleh. =.= good luck bro
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DANI-CAL1FORN1A Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
omg
bless this journal entry

but ugh just truer words can't be said. awesome journal and speaking out about it just makes you really cool okay ;v;
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Sliced-Penguin Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
I'm glad you agree, thank you. ;u;
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jaeqer Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i agree so much with you man,
and to hear that you were bullied, that just make me so angry,
good people dont deserve getting bullied
and this whole journal is just so thoughtfull and you can agree 100% with it
i hope i haven't been rude to you man
i never hated on anyones work
but i have gotten hater comments
but i dont care about them
i stay strong
i stand up
i wont give up
no, i wont give up for a hater comment
they can just go away
because i have all my friends
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Sliced-Penguin Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012
I'm glad you agree,
I respect you so much for that. xD
You sound like a very confident and friendly person, and we need more people around here like you
seriously <3
like, there's so much hate, but for no reason lol
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jaeqer Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
awman, thank you so much, and yes ikr
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